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  • Prolonged Abuse

    Prolonged Abuse

    Kendra Leathen is a mental health counselor at Elite DNA Behavioral Health, where she works with individuals and families healing from trauma, addiction, and relational wounds. With a background in teaching and a Master of Science degree in Mental and Clinical Health Counseling from Palm Beach Atlantic University and Master of Arts in Theological studies

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  • What I Know For Sure

    What I Know For Sure

    Barb Twigg here with another What I Know For Sure GO with or without him

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  • Patterns of the Heart, Part Two: A Faith-Based Reflection

    Patterns of the Heart, Part Two: A Faith-Based Reflection

    In part one, I shared some of my personal experiences with relational patterns that left deep emotional and spiritual marks on my life. Circling back to Lynn’s question about a faith-based study on narcissism and personality disorders, while I have spent years researching the clinical aspects of these dynamics, I have not deeply studied the

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  • Crisis & Resilience

    Crisis & Resilience

    Hi SUM Nation, Lynn Donovan here. Last November I was honored to share with my long-time SUMite friend on her Podcast, Warrior Words, about thriving in a mismatched marriage. You can hear that here. Heather invited me once again to share another story on her podcast. I share how our faith carries us through a

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  • Patterns of the Heart (Healthy Relationship Series)

    Patterns of the Heart (Healthy Relationship Series)

    Part 1: My Personal Experience Hello SUMite family, Joy here. When Lynn mentioned the possibility of a faith-based study on narcissism and personality disorders, I felt deeply led to share more from my own lived experience. I believe the term narcissism is one of the most loosely used personality labels in our culture today. It’s

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  • Seek to Understand; Not to be Understood

    Seek to Understand; Not to be Understood

    During the summer Bible study that Lynn, Ann, and Ian led on the book of Psalms, I wrote a guest blog entitled, King David’s Heart was Like a Pitcher, to show that David poured out all his emotions to God, both positive and negative. (Psalm 142:2) I also told the heartbreaking story of Maria and

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  • What I Know For Sure

    What I Know For Sure

    Hi everyone. This is Barb Twigg with another What I Know For Sure Be Quick To Listen!

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  • It’s About to Get Very Real

    It’s About to Get Very Real

    Hi Sum Family, Wasn’t Ann’s post on Monday amazing? I’ve pondered and prayed to try to determine what to share about personalities, emotional health and healthy boundaries. I’ve undertaken hours of review and study from the psychological/educational pundits to gain some small understanding of the vast amount of information available. It’s a lot! What I

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  • The Gift of Others!

    The Gift of Others!

    Lent! We’re now 2 weeks into this annual pilgrimage to meet Jesus at the Cross and then to experience His resurrection of that wonderful Easter Sunday. For those of you who’ve been here for a while, you’ll know I love Lent. For me, it’s always a season to recalibrate, to assess my relationship with Jesus.

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  • Let’s Talk About Abuse and Reconciliation

    Let’s Talk About Abuse and Reconciliation

    Hello my friends, Ann here. Lynn is talking about such an important topic at the moment: Difficult personalities in families. I think many of us deal with a situation or two in our family where there is someone with a difficult personality. Would that be true to say? If I look at Bryce’s and my

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  • What I Know For Sure

    What I Know For Sure

    Divine Love Hello! This is Barb Twigg with another What I Know For Sure

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  • What A Response!

    What A Response!

    Well….. WOW! It appears that exploring personality traits and difficulties is a topic of great interest. The overwhelming vote was “yes” to explore some challenging topics in relationships. I also respect those of you who didn’t want to look at this aspect of relationships. And those who cautioned about labeling anyone with a negative personality

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  • For Such a Time as This

    For Such a Time as This

    Lynn here. I am so glad that several of you have applied to be guest authors. Joy, has written for SUM before. Today she is bringing another great article. Be encouraged. Hugs, Lynn Joy: There are moments in life when we look around and wonder how we got here. I’ve often questioned why I moved

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  • Personality Disorders

    Personality Disorders

    Hi Sumites, Lynn Donovan here. Recently I’ve been learning about narcissism and personality disorders in general. I’m utterly fascinated how disorders are formed and also managed within a person. I’m also interested in how these quirks, annoyances, and very challenging behaviors affect us relationally, especially within the context of marriage and our family of origin.

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  • Want to hear God? See in the Spirit.

    Want to hear God? See in the Spirit.

    Develop Your Spiritual Gifting Seminar Three: Develop Spiritual GiftsThere is so much confusion about spiritual gifts. It’s time to clearly divide the Word of God. Know what gifts we have access to then develop them in our lives. As the world grows dark, we reveal the light of God through His many gifts. We will

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  • What I Know For Sure

    What I Know For Sure

    Hello! Barb Twigg here with another What I Know For Sure The veil will be removed!

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  • Valentine’s Day … What To Do!

    Valentine’s Day … What To Do!

    It’s been a loooong while since I written about the practical life in a spiritually mismatched marriage. Today I would like to share a few thoughts of wisdom among us believing spouses as Valentine’s Day is about to roll around (AGAIN). In all transparency, I wish this day didn’t exist. Well, Kinda. It is wonderful

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  • When God puts you in the Marketplace

    When God puts you in the Marketplace

    Hello friends, Ann here! I have been on quite the fast-moving journey the last two months, and I might share a little of that today, so here goes: I have recently gone back into the world of work and study. As I mentioned in a previous post, I am retraining as a coaching psychologist; and

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  • WHAT TO DO WITH A GIFT

    WHAT TO DO WITH A GIFT

    AUTHOR: Tess Reeves. Have you ever been super excited to gift a bestie with a birthday surprise that you knew without a doubt would knock her off her feet? Did you have an image of what would her facial expression be when you handed it over? The joy on her face would be priceless. You

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  • Praying For Protection Seminar

    Praying For Protection Seminar

    At the start of every year, I offer training seminars to the financial donors that occurs on Giving Tuesday in December. If you missed your opportunity to support this ministry you can still give and register for this seminar. Link is at the bottom. The LIVE broadcast is Tuesday, January 28th at 11 am Pacific.

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  • What I Know For Sure

    What I Know For Sure

    Hi, This is Barb Twigg with another What I Know For Sure He wants MORE of you!

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