unequally yoked

  • Our Pre-Believers Are Prodigal Sons

    Our Pre-Believers Are Prodigal Sons

    So, gang, let’s look at this Prodigal son and consider our spouses. They have been hoodwinked into a kingdom of darkness. And what is flabbergasting to me is this. They are convinced, passionately, that they are neutral to faith/religion. Or they are committed also with a passion in opposition to our God, in which they…

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  • Prodigal Spouse, Prodigal Believers

    Prodigal Spouse, Prodigal Believers

    I am having an amazing time reading the Word and meditating on two different stories. One in the Old Testament, in the book of Joshua and one in the New Testament, in Luke 15, the Prodigal son.Gang, WOW! The sub-plots and lesser-known lessons that most believers miss, are blowing my mind. But today, I want…

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  • Dear Lynn, Fear, My Spouse, and the End Times

    Dear Lynn, Fear, My Spouse, and the End Times

    Hi all – I am new to this community and wanted to ask if it was natural and normal to feel anxiety and a little bit of fear when feeling as if we live in the end times and our husbands are not saved?

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  • Delay Is Defeated

    Delay Is Defeated

    This past week the Lord surprised me. He began to show me how many promises, hopes, and dreams have been delayed. He began to speak to me about delay. I asked the Lord about delay and He said to me that many in the SUM community are in this place along with me. During my…

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  • When God Asks Questions. Ugh!

    When God Asks Questions. Ugh!

    Today, I’m sharing the Let’s TALK LIVE video from Wednesday. It’s vulnerable. It’s real. It’s God’s thoughts about our assignment in a spiritually mismatched marriage.

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  • Living With The Enemy

    Living With The Enemy

    I hesitated in writing this post. If you live unequally yoked, I think you will understand my perspective. If you aren’t, consider what I have to say.  Several days ago, I received a phone call from a woman who lives in Wisconsin ( I live in California). She had heard about our book and took…

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  • Daily Prayer That Protects

    Daily Prayer That Protects

    A few months ago, a friend of mine shared a short warfare prayer. Every day since then, on my walk-n-pray, I open my phone to the link and read/pray it out loud inserting my name, my husband’s name, children grandchildren, SUM ministries, Centerpoint ministries (my home church) and all my prayer ministries, the leadership and…

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  • My friends, I dare you to read this story differently today.

    My friends, I dare you to read this story differently today.

    I messed up! I slipped up…. AGAIN…. I continue to be disappointed in myself because I have this sin, this ugly thing, that I battle on and off.I wonder, Is God mad at me? Is God disappointed with me? I want God to be pleased with me, perhaps he will bless me more if I…

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  • Slay The Marriage Killers – The In-Laws

    Slay The Marriage Killers – The In-Laws

    Marriage Killers. How do we slay them?Today, I want to talk about …The in-laws. Every marriage brings with it an extended family. My experience with in-laws was a good one. They weren’t intrusive. At the time I married Mike, he had lived on his own for years. He had a health relationship with his parents,…

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  • The Wicked Marriage Killer

    The Wicked Marriage Killer

    What is the Wicked Marriage Killer?Many years ago, my mother-in-law looked at my father-in-law and quoted me to him, “Just deal with it, Caitie.” I bet my mouth hung open. It became obvious that Carole, was teasing and poking back at her dear husband with words I’d said to my then, hmmmm I guess ten-year-old…

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  • Marriage Killers – Finances- Part II

    Marriage Killers – Finances- Part II

    So, two things this week.Practice a new response to all who ask you, “How are you?” You respond, “I’m blessed and highly favored.” Today in the comments, let’s give the LORD honor. Share a story when you were at the end of your financial rope, your prayed and a miracle provision arrived. I will share…

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  • Slay….. The Marriage Killers…. FINANCES

    Slay….. The Marriage Killers…. FINANCES

    So, let’s talk about Marriage Killers.

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  • Day Three Fasting & Prayer Prompt

    Day Three Fasting & Prayer Prompt

    Wednesday, January 9, 2019 Mid-week, and this is when fasting becomes difficult. What I want to tell you is that when you reach Friday and you remained in the fast, you will feel such a surge of accomplishment and pride in your perseverance. And the flip-side, you will be disappointed you didn’t make yourself finish…

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  • Day Two Prayer & Fasting Prompt

    Day Two Prayer & Fasting Prompt

    Tuesday, January 8, 2019 SUMites, did you wake with a hunger in your tummy? Let that hunger remind you to hunger and thirst after His righteousness. FOR THEY SHALL BE FILLED! Today’s prayer prompt: My child, listen to what I say,     and treasure my commands. Tune your ears to wisdom,     and concentrate on…

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  • Fasting Day One – Scripture Prayer Prompt

    Fasting Day One – Scripture Prayer Prompt

    Prayer time challenge for this week. 1.      Don’t touch or look at your cell phone in the morning prior to your prayer time. I believe this is directly from the Lord. Your early morning prayer is vital during this fast. Reading your phone before prayer will completely suck you into the cares of the world.…

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  • Fasting Expectations

    Fasting Expectations

    SUM Nation 2019 is marching forward. And we, the Body of Christ, have tremendous assignments and moves of God in which we will participate. In December I received a great deal of revelation from the Lord about 2019 and 2020. I will likely share what Jesus told me after our fast. But today, I want…

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  • Because of the Manger… Birth of the King!

    Because of the Manger… Birth of the King!

    From my prayer time this Christmas: December 2018 From the Father: In the quiet before the early light of Christmas traditions, My child, rise and sit alone with Me. Press into My heart and travel with Me through the ages, back to a tiny town in the Judean desert. This village, Bethlehem, shelters a teenaged,…

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  • The Difference Between Zechariah and Mary

    The Difference Between Zechariah and Mary

    We are nearing the time and the town of Bethlehem. Last week in the comments Cindy, brought forward an interesting observation. And today as I’m reading the story of Christmas from the first chapter of Luke, my eyes are drawn again and again to the angel Gabriel and his proclamation of the birth of the…

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  • Because of the Manger. This One is BIG

    Because of the Manger. This One is BIG

    Joseph & Jesus I’ve been reading the Christmas story in the Gospels the past two weeks. My time in the Word has been utterly revelatory. Father, God has been speaking to me in His kind voice and uncovering treasures of the Christmas story that I didn’t even know were there. Such was the post from…

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  • Because of The Manger… Our Voice Is Restored!

    Because of The Manger… Our Voice Is Restored!

    While reading the Christmas story in the book of Luke on Monday, I pondered Zechariah’s story. The Holy Spirit began to speak to me about Zechariah’s angelic encounter, his response, and the significance and similarity in many believers lives today. Let’s read it together and then I will share the revelation that could very well…

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  • Because of the Manger… Shrug Off The Ugly Sweater

    Because of the Manger… Shrug Off The Ugly Sweater

    SUMites, I’m so excited for Christmas this year. I went extra crazy decorating the house. Take a look. Within me remains a wide-eye small girl who still marvels at the wonder and whimsy of this season. I miss the snow so much this time of year. So much so, that I created a snowscape outside…

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