spiritually mismatched marriage

  • Marriage Devotion – Patty Tower

    Marriage Devotion – Patty Tower

    Forgiving My Spouse Forgiveness is not just an act we do for someone else, it is more so an act we do for ourselves. Unforgiveness harbors resentment, bitterness, anger, and negativity. When we harbor these emotions, the act of portraying love faints away. Is that what I want for my marriage? I thought about what…

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  • Marriage Devotion – Patty Tower

    Marriage Devotion – Patty Tower

    My spouse is worthy of praise & honor I read an article about a woman in church talking to a couple members about her husband, and everything she spoke out of her mouth regarding her husband was negative. The members began to think negatively about her husband and the character of the man she married.…

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  • Holy Assignment – SUMites PLEASE DO THIS!

    Holy Assignment – SUMites PLEASE DO THIS!

    SUMite Nation: I have a homework assignment for you. Several weeks ago, I found what I’ll call a “Dream List” tucked inside my Bible. It was written on September 14, 2015. I wrote out this list in the early dawn of Rosh Hashana that year. I apparently decided to scribble down my future hopes, prayers,…

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  • The Enemy Cannot Handle This!

    The Enemy Cannot Handle This!

    Sunday, September 29th is the beginning of Rosh Hashanah. We’ve talked about this Jewish holiday over the years. In fact, the first time I’d ever been made aware of it’s significance was because of a blog post from either Lynn or Dineen. For those who are not familiar or are new to this holiday, a…

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  • I’ve Reached a Dead-End!

    I’ve Reached a Dead-End!

    A Dead-End…. …Divorce… …Failed adoption… …Lost job… …Friendship betrayed… …Circumstances… …Cancer… Arrival on: Dead End Street This is a familiar road to me, perhaps to you as well. We arrive in this desolate place by many different vehicles and at various speeds.

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  • SUMites, You Are Brave Enough…..

    SUMites, You Are Brave Enough…..

    All of the undertones that we uncovered in Esther are powerful and new gifts to our faith. Today, I want to talk about the unequally yoked aspect of this story. I also want to point out Esther’s divine calling and how it’s fulfilled. In reality, all of us that are unequally yoked, could take a…

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  • Esther – Destroy Christian Faith – On Repeat

    Esther – Destroy Christian Faith – On Repeat

    Open your Bible to chapter three of Esther. Before we get started on Haman, I want to revisit the word, EDICT. This is a governmental word and a word of great power when spoken by royalty over a Kingdom. It’s power and significance landed squarely upon my spirit one night when driving down a California…

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  • Welcome to our Summer Study on Esther

    Welcome to our Summer Study on Esther

    I’m writing today with a change in gears. It’s time for our summer study on the Book of Esther, and I have the pleasure of kicking it off. Lynn will post next, and we’ll take turns. Many will remember we studied this book two years ago (April 2017) but we seem to hear ‘Esther’ again.…

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  • The Christian “ITCH”

    The Christian “ITCH”

    SUMites. I have to say…some of the praises and posts on our Facebook group on giving thanks has been breaking down walls. Can any of you feel it? I know I do! “God is on the move, on the move, halleluuuu-jah! God is on the move, on the move todaaayyy (insert me singing Newsboys here.…

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  • The Influence of a Christian Wife – This is good!

    The Influence of a Christian Wife – This is good!

    This morning in my Daily Bible reading I came across the following passage and God began to talk. Want to know what He said? It’s really good. A MUST read for every SUM wife!

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  • Chronicles of the Donovan Clan. Clan Update

    Chronicles of the Donovan Clan. Clan Update

    Wow, I missed all of you so much while I was away frantically writing. But guess what? I’ve finished the basic manuscript, Marching Around Jericho, Praying Your Unsaved Spouse Into the Kingdom. Hallelujah. This is a radical book. It will stretch you and challenge every demon of complacency, doubt and religiosity. This book will place…

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  • Loving Your Separated Spouse by Linda Rooks

    Loving Your Separated Spouse by Linda Rooks

    Loving Your Separated Spouse I know in this community of unequally yoked believers, there is someone whose spouse has walked out the door and left. Your heart is breaking right now, and you don’t know what to do. Perhaps your spouse has never accepted Christ or perhaps, like my husband did many years ago, he…

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  • MUST READ For SUMites Still Waiting

    MUST READ For SUMites Still Waiting

    My heart has been with the many who are reading here and are STILL waiting for your miracle. It may have been wrenching to read about spouses coming to faith while you languish in the loneliness and deep conflicts of a mismatched marriage. I know for me, reading about happy couples was sometimes a dagger…

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  • Strange Easter? Chronicles of the Donovan Clan

    Strange Easter? Chronicles of the Donovan Clan

    Friends, I will tell you that my Easter was strange. I attended my church on Saturday evening and was overcome by the presentation and the holiness of Jesus and what He gave to me. And then on Sunday morning, I attended my old church with Mike. It was weird and different and good.

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  • The Summit

    The Summit

    Photos From the Summit

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  • Dear Lynn, Fear, My Spouse, and the End Times

    Dear Lynn, Fear, My Spouse, and the End Times

    Hi all – I am new to this community and wanted to ask if it was natural and normal to feel anxiety and a little bit of fear when feeling as if we live in the end times and our husbands are not saved?

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  • When God Asks Questions. Ugh!

    When God Asks Questions. Ugh!

    Today, I’m sharing the Let’s TALK LIVE video from Wednesday. It’s vulnerable. It’s real. It’s God’s thoughts about our assignment in a spiritually mismatched marriage.

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  • I Have Guilt Over My Mismatched Marriage

    I Have Guilt Over My Mismatched Marriage

    A few weeks ago, this question arrived on our Instagram:”What to do with that guilt I feel sometimes for marrying someone who is not a believer?”

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  • My friends, I dare you to read this story differently today.

    My friends, I dare you to read this story differently today.

    I messed up! I slipped up…. AGAIN…. I continue to be disappointed in myself because I have this sin, this ugly thing, that I battle on and off.I wonder, Is God mad at me? Is God disappointed with me? I want God to be pleased with me, perhaps he will bless me more if I…

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  • Marriage Killers – Finances- Part II

    Marriage Killers – Finances- Part II

    So, two things this week.Practice a new response to all who ask you, “How are you?” You respond, “I’m blessed and highly favored.” Today in the comments, let’s give the LORD honor. Share a story when you were at the end of your financial rope, your prayed and a miracle provision arrived. I will share…

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  • Because of the Manger. This One is BIG

    Because of the Manger. This One is BIG

    Joseph & Jesus I’ve been reading the Christmas story in the Gospels the past two weeks. My time in the Word has been utterly revelatory. Father, God has been speaking to me in His kind voice and uncovering treasures of the Christmas story that I didn’t even know were there. Such was the post from…

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