spiritually mismatched in marriage

  • The Spouse Effect

    The Spouse Effect

    Testimony: Tessia Reeves AUTHOR: Tess Reeves. I’ve loved Our Creator for decades and never grow weary of hearing from Him. I was entrusted with Keith, my husband of 28 yrs. As if that wasn’t enough, he helped me to raise 2 magnificent daughters (Jessica, 25yo and Jalyn, 22yo). I love our nondenominational church in Gainesville,…

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  • I see a cloud the size of a man’s hand

    I see a cloud the size of a man’s hand

    Hi SUM family, Ann here. Whew, it’s been an exciting week with us hearing about two spouses’ salvations in one week. If you missed those you can catch up here and here. Well, unbelievably, there’s more! No sooner had I uploaded Monday's post about a second salvation than I got a message from another SUM…

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  • Eyeballing the Giant!

    Eyeballing the Giant!

    Dear friends, We’re continuing our series on fighting battles. I'm calling these 'spiritual battles', as most of the battles we face in life, as Christians, could be said to be spiritual even if they seem physical. For me, the challenge of my husband’s unbelief used to be a massive spiritual battle. It was a battle…

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  • What to Do When Facing a Scary Giant

    What to Do When Facing a Scary Giant

    Hello friends, It’s Ann here and, with a smile on my face, I’m introducing a new series which we'll start next Friday: FIGHTING THAT GIANT! In other words, spiritual warfare. We can always do with a fresh look on how to walk victoriously. And I know that many of us are in situations right now…

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  • A Continued Testimony: My Family and Church

    A Continued Testimony: My Family and Church

    Hi SUM family, Ann here. A few weeks ago I shared about how my teenage son Miles is now attending church with me. Amazing, amazing, amazing! If you missed that story, you can catch up here. Today I want to give you an update because I know how encouraging testimonies can be. Specifically, I want…

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  • SUM Community, Let’s Party!

    SUM Community, Let’s Party!

    By Ann Hutchison My friends, today is an auspicious day: A certain someone turns fifteen. Nope, it's not one of our children, it's this ministry. Fifteen years ago today this blog had its humble beginnings with its very first post! Books emerged. A YouTube channel. Friendships. Testimonies. We've seen salvations of spouses, restorations of marriages,…

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  • Sow Bountifully, Reap Bountifully

    Sow Bountifully, Reap Bountifully

    Ann here! I have a little thought for us today: “He who sows sparingly will also reap sparingly. And he who sows bountifully will also reap bountifully.” 2 Corinthians 9:6 (NKJV) Sowing. In a spiritually unequal marriage? Perhaps we can pause and think about this for a minute. When we’re in a spiritually unequal marriage,…

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  • Teenage Testimony Time Again!

    Teenage Testimony Time Again!

    My dear friends, Ann here. Thank you so much for your lovely comments on Monday’s post. It was as if the whole SUM community sent up a cheer of excitement to hear that my one teenager had joined church. The Body of Christ. And we cheered because we get it. We get the pain. We…

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  • Focus on Jesus, And … Things Bloom!

    Focus on Jesus, And … Things Bloom!

    Dear SUMites, Ann here. I hope you enjoyed our little experience of walking together through Easter. I have to say it was a great discipline for me to focus solely on Jesus that week.  On the topic of 'focusing solely on Jesus', when I first started writing for this blog a few years ago I…

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  • The Slithering Snakes of Holy Week

    The Slithering Snakes of Holy Week

    We've now got to the middle of Holy Week. My friends, one thing we see in the Gospels is that those Pharisees were an absolute pain in the backside! No, not just a pain. It's serious. Their rejection of Jesus is really, really bad. Really bad. Jesus shares pearls of wisdom that final week. His…

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  • Monday of Holy Week

    Monday of Holy Week

    It’s Monday of Holy Week in Jerusalem. With just three days to go before the crucifixion, Jesus is walking around Jerusalem ministering to others. In love. Miraculous, amazing Jesus. I cannot imagine the turmoil within his soul as he dug deep to carry out those last ministry tasks, knowing what he would endure next. At…

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  • Top Three Tips for Thriving in a Spiritually Mismatched Marriage

    Top Three Tips for Thriving in a Spiritually Mismatched Marriage

    Ann here! Today I had an interesting faith conversation with a man with whom I cross paths occasionally. I know him in a professional rather than social capacity, but whenever I see him we have a good chat. So, I'll call him a 'friend-acquaintance'.  Anyway, today I saw him for the first time in a…

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  • So, We Roll up Our Sleeves as Workers!

    So, We Roll up Our Sleeves as Workers!

    Dear friends, I hope the past few posts down memory lane have been interesting to you. God loves this community – His SUM family – and wants us to walk in hope!   Wrapping up this series on past words from the archives, I guess I have a couple of thoughts: It's so important that…

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  • A Wave is Coming

    A Wave is Coming

    Hello friends, Ann here! I hope these recent words from the archives have been refreshing your souls. Don’t we need it right now! After a year of sitting through this pandemic, we certainly can do with a little spark of fresh stuff. So, let's roll up our sleeves and carry on a little longer with…

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  • Jesus, I can’t see past my SUM!

    Jesus, I can’t see past my SUM!

    Happy Friday, friends — Ann here! Today, I’d like to share a vision that the Lord gave our community a few years ago. It was Dineen who received it, and she shared it on the blog — The original article is here. I hope when you read the vision below it will encourage you! Here’s…

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  • The Harvest – The Many!

    The Harvest – The Many!

    Dear friends, Ann here! One of the things I’m currently thinking about is the word 'Harvest' and how it relates to all we have been through in this community. I guess I feel we've been prepared through some pretty gruelling training (i.e., the challenges of a spiritual mismatch), and that training has equipped us to…

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  • The Harvest Ahead

    The Harvest Ahead

    Dear friends, Ann here. I mentioned on Monday that I would share some words from our archives that God gave our community. These words are promises that we're dusting off now because they feel relevant for today. For the past months I've been hearing God that after this pandemic many of us are going to…

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  • God’s Promises from the SUM Archives

    God’s Promises from the SUM Archives

    Ann here! Dear SUMites, do you remember last year I said I would pull out some of the words that God has spoken to our community over the years? In particular I’ve been interested in key promises we have received from the Lord — Corporate promises for us that we can look at together. Here's…

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  • Master, Are YOU Worried?

    Master, Are YOU Worried?

    Hello friends, Ann here. I’ve had a little discovery this week that has totally made me smile, and I thought I’d share it. It’s to do with my husband: Bryce has a trait that can teach me a lesson or two about my walk with God. It’s this: He has not an anxious bone in…

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  • Are You Weary? Let’s Take Communion

    Are You Weary? Let’s Take Communion

    My friends, Ann here. I normally try to write something on the cheery side but sat down earlier to do that and … Mm, I'm not quite in that space. See, for the last two weeks I’ve been mostly horizontal on my couch feeling a bit physically unwell. So that's the tone of today's post:…

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  • A Fasting Reflection, by Vidya Rodney

    A Fasting Reflection, by Vidya Rodney

    Hi SUM family, Ann here!   Many of you will know Vidya Rodney, who sends us lovely guest posts for the blog. Today she has shared a little about how the community fast in January went for her. It's a good thing to reflect back on a fast after the event. Once we have recovered,…

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