Winning Him Without Words

  • Top Three Tips for Thriving in a Spiritually Mismatched Marriage

    Top Three Tips for Thriving in a Spiritually Mismatched Marriage

    Ann here! Today I had an interesting faith conversation with a man with whom I cross paths occasionally. I know him in a professional rather than social capacity, but whenever I see him we have a good chat. So, I'll call him a 'friend-acquaintance'.  Anyway, today I saw him for the first time in a…

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  • When a Spouse Leaves the Faith — Part 3

    When a Spouse Leaves the Faith — Part 3

    Hi friends, Ann here! When a spouse leaves the faith — part 1 When spouse leaves the faith – part 2 I’d like to thank those SUMites whose stories have helped inform the last two posts on this topic. It is an intensely difficult path. The grief of a lost shared faith in marriage is…

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  • Marriage Prayers of Influence

    Marriage Prayers of Influence

    It’s daily, that I grow ever more concerned and aware of the great power our word wield in the spiritual realm. As sons and daughters of God, our voice, is our greatest weapon of offense. But our words also can release havoc into our lives. Most of the time we are unaware that we are…

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  • The Influence of a Christian Wife – This is good!

    The Influence of a Christian Wife – This is good!

    This morning in my Daily Bible reading I came across the following passage and God began to talk. Want to know what He said? It’s really good. A MUST read for every SUM wife!

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  • Love DEFEATS Knowledge

    Love DEFEATS Knowledge

    By Patty tower   We are over a month post conference and boy…not only is God doing a work in me, but doing a work in my husband! Hallelujah and amen. I’m excited that God is opening doors of spiritual discussions between my husband I, and I’m thrilled to see where these discussions will lead. God…

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  • Step Onto The Warrior March

    Step Onto The Warrior March

    I want to release another testimony of a husband baptized. Susan Loyless sent me an email a few weeks ago and her husband went into the water! Hallelujah. I also know that Tina U. shared that her husband also was baptized back in March. Something in the water……. For all of you still marching along,…

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  • God’s Promises Are Yes and AMEN!

    God’s Promises Are Yes and AMEN!

    Hear my voice now, with Jesus, our marriage relationships will become easier. Jesus fills in all the missing places in your heart and life that your husband is unwilling or unable to meet. Stay strong.

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  • When God Asks Questions. Ugh!

    When God Asks Questions. Ugh!

    Today, I’m sharing the Let’s TALK LIVE video from Wednesday. It’s vulnerable. It’s real. It’s God’s thoughts about our assignment in a spiritually mismatched marriage.

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  • Living With The Enemy

    Living With The Enemy

    I hesitated in writing this post. If you live unequally yoked, I think you will understand my perspective. If you aren’t, consider what I have to say.  Several days ago, I received a phone call from a woman who lives in Wisconsin ( I live in California). She had heard about our book and took…

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  • Slay The Marriage Killers – The In-Laws

    Slay The Marriage Killers – The In-Laws

    Marriage Killers. How do we slay them?Today, I want to talk about …The in-laws. Every marriage brings with it an extended family. My experience with in-laws was a good one. They weren’t intrusive. At the time I married Mike, he had lived on his own for years. He had a health relationship with his parents,…

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  • The Wicked Marriage Killer

    The Wicked Marriage Killer

    What is the Wicked Marriage Killer?Many years ago, my mother-in-law looked at my father-in-law and quoted me to him, “Just deal with it, Caitie.” I bet my mouth hung open. It became obvious that Carole, was teasing and poking back at her dear husband with words I’d said to my then, hmmmm I guess ten-year-old…

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  • MORE THAN I COULD HAVE ASKED OR IMAGINED!

    MORE THAN I COULD HAVE ASKED OR IMAGINED!

    Shelley Cruze with Husband and Son By  SUMite, Shelley Cruz I was raised in a wonderful Christian home but walked away from God as a teenager because I thought that I was missing out on all the fun in life. I married, started my career, bought a home with my husband and had two babies.…

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  • Fill Your Kitchen With Love

    Fill Your Kitchen With Love

    Now for something completely different. You know, I have discovered a secret to a happy marriage. Well at least it applies to the Donovan Clan. Feed the man. I’ve learned to cook. I didn’t know much more than spaghetti when we married. But I find cooking is one of the creative expressions I enjoy, a…

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  • Going To Hell?

    Going To Hell?

    Hello SUM Nation, On Monday I posted a question. See below. Today, I’ll share my perspective. Hugs, Lynn Anne M. wrote: Answering questions about the eternal fate of unsaved family members to your children, knowing that your words may be repeated to those family members. It's walking a line of truth, comfort and diplomacy. Anne,…

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  • Mike’s Best Advice To A Believing Wife

    Mike’s Best Advice To A Believing Wife

    Hello SUMite Nation! Lynn here. I’m writing this post on a very warm and sunny Super Bowl Sunday. I’m apologizing to all of you who are freezing your keister off in the icebox of February. And for those of you battling this ferocious flu, I speak to that bug in your body and command it…

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  • “Woman! How Would Like Your Husband Saved?” by Martha Bush

    “Woman! How Would Like Your Husband Saved?” by Martha Bush

    “Woman! How Would Like Your Husband Saved?” I can see you screaming at your computer after seeing this picture pop back up, “Oh no, I can’t go through another fast; give me a break, Lynn!”   Hold on; Lynn is not calling for another fast. I want to share with you about a fast I…

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  • Submission vs. Obedience – – Part 3 By: Martha Bush

    Submission vs. Obedience – – Part 3 By: Martha Bush

    Submission vs. Obedience – – Part 1Submission vs. Obedience – – Part 2 Introduction by Martha Bush I want to thank Lynn for giving me the opportunity to tell my story of the most difficult season  I faced in my marriage when submission vs. obedience came into play, as I obeyed the Lord’s direction for…

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  • 1 Peter 3 – Same But Different

    1 Peter 3 – Same But Different

    Thank you, Martha, for your powerful post about submission vs obedience on Friday. I believe she is working on a follow up and I will post it when she sends it along. Today, I want to continue with what the Lord was showing me a few weeks ago about 1 Peter 3. If you recall,…

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  • Going To Church Alone

    Going To Church Alone

    Today, I want to chat about another big issue. This is a re-post for our newest family members. (Jan, 2016) GOING TO CHURCH ALONE. Gang, can I just say – Grrrrrrrrr This is so hard. I know that for me this was an area that was of intense and great struggle. Even today, I truly…

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  • Could You Walk Around Nude?

    Could You Walk Around Nude?

    Do you read the stories in the Bible about those who died, who gave their lives up, for the cause of Christ? What about modern martyr accounts of believers in the middle east who are being killed for their Christian faith? Do you walk in faith that you could do the same? I often cry…

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  • Chronicles of the Donovan Clan – God Never Relents

    Chronicles of the Donovan Clan – God Never Relents

    SUMite Nation! Gang, can I just tell you…. I MISSED YOU. I finally am home. It’s great to travel and I have some stories to share but it’s awesome to be back at home. I am refreshed now and feel as though God has cranked up my passion to a brand-new level for our community.…

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