Unequally Yoked

  • Abijah – Godly Mother of Hezekiah (Part 1)

    Abijah – Godly Mother of Hezekiah (Part 1)

    My friends, this week I am swamped with jury duty and some design project deadlines, so I am thrilled to have one of our very own SUMites, Olga Gurina, fill in for me this week. I've so looked forward to sharing this beautiful nugget with you and this is the perfect week to do it.…

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  • Guest With Arlene Pelicane

    Guest With Arlene Pelicane

    I'm a guest with Arlene Pelicane today on her podcast.  Arlene: Are you and your husband on the same page spiritually?  My dear friend, author Lynn Donovan shares her story of what it’s like to be married to an unbeliever.  You are going to love her spunk and honesty. How has she found love, peace, and happiness…

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  • God Makes Everything Beautiful

    God Makes Everything Beautiful

    The three of us stood together, three women sharing hearts and faith. My prayer partner and I had just finished praying for our dear friend, who happens to be mismatched like me. Like you. And the weight of her yoke was sitting very heavy. That’s when my prayer partner began to share her testimony about…

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  • Reader Question: My Friends Want To Save My Husband

    Reader Question: My Friends Want To Save My Husband

    Subject: What to do when your friends want to save your husband Dear Lynn: I have an interesting concern; one I have yet to hear about in the comments and posts throughout the SUM Nation community.  I have a community of Christian friends who are "Jesus with skin on." These women (and men) have taken…

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  • Reader Question: I Don’t Know What to Do

    Reader Question: I Don’t Know What to Do

    Hello Dineen and Lynn.  My husband and I have been married for 15 years. He told me in January 2013 that he was no longer a Christian. He became an aetheist at 51 years old. I was and still am devastated.  I married a Christian man and we based our marriage on the same religious…

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  • The Movie: NOAH

    The Movie: NOAH

    Well, I don’t know about you but this past few days I’ve been reading some reviews and reports about the movie, Noah, that opened on Friday. It’s fascinating to me how many differing views there are from the Christian population alone. Honestly, I’ve been disappointed to read some of them. I will state here I…

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  • An Unlikely Family Shows Up At The Movies

    An Unlikely Family Shows Up At The Movies

    Hello SUMite Family:  It’s a sunny Sunday afternoon here at the Donovan Clan House as I write this post. I’ve just returned home from the movie theater where I watched the movie, Son of God.  I’m in my office alone right now, a rare accomplishment these days as my son, daughter-in-law and granddaughter who is…

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  • The Most Unusual Interview

    The Most Unusual Interview

    Good Friday Morning my friends,  I want to tell you what happened when I asked Dineen to marry me. *grin*. I didn’t really ask her to marry me but I did do something extraordinary. But I must move the end of that story to next Friday.  Today I want to give you a heads up.…

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  • Trade in Your Yoke

    Trade in Your Yoke

    My friends, as Lynn shared on Monday, Abba so overwhelmed us that last day at the conference. For the spiritually mismatched to be called out and recognized in this way was deeply humbling and amazing! It brought me to tears as my heart burst for all of us here. And to be prayed for like…

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  • I Would Sign Up Again – Unequally Yoked

    I Would Sign Up Again – Unequally Yoked

    Hello SUMites,  Today I have a question for you. How many times have you set down in church and looked around the sanctuary at the couples seated together, husband and wife, and felt defeated, disappointed, and pain?  I know this place of pain existed in my life for many years. And I really didn’t understand…

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  • God’s Not Done with Us

    God’s Not Done with Us

    On my trip home from Indianapolis, I sat next to an older couple on the plane. I could tell they'd been together for years in the way they worked together to figure out her pills. I offered my set of eyes, glad to help them choose the right one. As we settle into our flight,…

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  • Marriage Challenge No. 1

    Marriage Challenge No. 1

    So, I’ve been inspired by a friend of mine Courtney Joseph who has a new book coming out, Women Living Well. I will share more about that later. It’s a really great book. I was privileged to read it before its release and she has a couple of chapters that are Marriage Challenges.  One of…

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  • Disappointment Recovery

    Disappointment Recovery

    Good Monday Morning my SUMites!  It’s Sunday afternoon as I write this note to all of you. I just went back and re-read the comments that you left for me last Monday on my post, Devastating Disappointment.  I’m undone.  By your love. Undone by of our shared tears. Humbled to the core for your prayers,…

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  • He Holds Our Tears

    He Holds Our Tears

    My friends, Dineen here. Lynn let me hyjack the blog today because we agreed the messages I received from the Holy Spirit are so needed right now and time sensitive. Get ready to read and grab a tissue. God rocked my world and now He's about to rock yours. But Mary was standing outside the…

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  • Devastating Disappointment

    Devastating Disappointment

    How do we walk through devastating – life-changing disappointment? I’ve been wrestling with this very issue in my life over the past two weeks.  For the past year I’ve been certain that my spouse has slowly moved closer to embracing faith. I’m not even sure why I came to this conclusion over time. Perhaps I…

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  • We SUMite Women Stand In the Gap for The SUMite Men

    We SUMite Women Stand In the Gap for The SUMite Men

    Honor…..  This word has followed me around a lot in the last several months. And I’m coming to realize that honor is a great prize. Honor is also something I haven’t always done well. However after a recent dinner out with my husband I’ve come to realize the utter importance of honor. The honor I…

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  • Chronicles Of A Humbled Donovan

    Chronicles Of A Humbled Donovan

    Okay….. So, ahem… You know what ALWAYS happens when I share teaching with you. I live it out… Well, this series on taking a step into the Jordan is no exception. So today I’m going to share with you an experience that has opened up a giant hole in my heart that only our merciful…

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  • Open Arms – FamilyLife Today –

    Open Arms – FamilyLife Today –

    Hi Everyone, We are psyched to be on the FamilyLife Today broadcast Monday, today, through Wednesday. In the broadcast Dennis Rainey and Bob Lepine welcome Dineen, me (Lynn) and another guest, Darla Stone, to share our stories. I think today is also when Dennis stops the broadcast to say something to my husband over the airwaves.…

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  • Astonish Us, Lord!

    Astonish Us, Lord!

    Yesterday many in the S.U.M. fasted and/or prayed for Rash Hashanah. Did God reveal something new to you? Be sure to jump over to our Facebook page and share. We'll be talking about it there as well as here.  “Behold, I will do something new, Now it will spring forth; Will you not be aware of it? I…

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  • Welcome to the S.U.M. Community!

    Welcome to the S.U.M. Community!

    My friends, I'm chatting today with Suzie Eller on her Moms Together Facebook page. I hope you'll pop over and join the discussion.  If you've found yourself here from Suzie's page, we want to welcome you to the Spiritually Unequal Marriage (SUM) Community! I hope you'll check out our Join Us Community Page there in…

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  • Who Are We Really Fighting?

    Who Are We Really Fighting?

    Recently I watched the show Once Upon a Time. One of the characters, a young boy around the age of ten or so is keenly aware that his world is a battle between good and evil. In this particular episode Henry tells the one person he thinks can save them all, “Evil always wins.” Let…

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