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  • The Perfect Son Who Stayed on the Farm

    The Perfect Son Who Stayed on the Farm

    I wonder if you feel offense for the older brother?After all, this man dutifully stayed at home, working hard, toiling in the land and never disobeyed his father. Honestly, if you’ve been a prodigal, you wished you had never run away, and you feel guilty that you come home and are welcomed back. You compare…

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  • Our Pre-Believers Are Prodigal Sons

    Our Pre-Believers Are Prodigal Sons

    So, gang, let’s look at this Prodigal son and consider our spouses. They have been hoodwinked into a kingdom of darkness. And what is flabbergasting to me is this. They are convinced, passionately, that they are neutral to faith/religion. Or they are committed also with a passion in opposition to our God, in which they…

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  • Prodigal Spouse, Prodigal Believers

    Prodigal Spouse, Prodigal Believers

    I am having an amazing time reading the Word and meditating on two different stories. One in the Old Testament, in the book of Joshua and one in the New Testament, in Luke 15, the Prodigal son.Gang, WOW! The sub-plots and lesser-known lessons that most believers miss, are blowing my mind. But today, I want…

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  • Dear Lynn, Fear, My Spouse, and the End Times

    Dear Lynn, Fear, My Spouse, and the End Times

    Hi all – I am new to this community and wanted to ask if it was natural and normal to feel anxiety and a little bit of fear when feeling as if we live in the end times and our husbands are not saved?

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  • God’s Promises Are Yes and AMEN!

    God’s Promises Are Yes and AMEN!

    Hear my voice now, with Jesus, our marriage relationships will become easier. Jesus fills in all the missing places in your heart and life that your husband is unwilling or unable to meet. Stay strong.

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  • Delay Is Defeated

    Delay Is Defeated

    This past week the Lord surprised me. He began to show me how many promises, hopes, and dreams have been delayed. He began to speak to me about delay. I asked the Lord about delay and He said to me that many in the SUM community are in this place along with me. During my…

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  • When God Asks Questions. Ugh!

    When God Asks Questions. Ugh!

    Today, I’m sharing the Let’s TALK LIVE video from Wednesday. It’s vulnerable. It’s real. It’s God’s thoughts about our assignment in a spiritually mismatched marriage.

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  • I Have Guilt Over My Mismatched Marriage

    I Have Guilt Over My Mismatched Marriage

    A few weeks ago, this question arrived on our Instagram:”What to do with that guilt I feel sometimes for marrying someone who is not a believer?”

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  • Living With The Enemy

    Living With The Enemy

    I hesitated in writing this post. If you live unequally yoked, I think you will understand my perspective. If you aren’t, consider what I have to say.  Several days ago, I received a phone call from a woman who lives in Wisconsin ( I live in California). She had heard about our book and took…

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  • My friends, I dare you to read this story differently today.

    My friends, I dare you to read this story differently today.

    I messed up! I slipped up…. AGAIN…. I continue to be disappointed in myself because I have this sin, this ugly thing, that I battle on and off.I wonder, Is God mad at me? Is God disappointed with me? I want God to be pleased with me, perhaps he will bless me more if I…

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  • The Marriage Saver & Taking RISKS for the Kingdom!

    The Marriage Saver & Taking RISKS for the Kingdom!

    This is the painting I'm speaking about in the video Hello my dear friends, I have had a heavy heart for all of you who are in the throes of battle right now. So, today, I’m not going to talk about marriage killers. NO! I want to talk about the marriage saver. Jesus Christ. I’ve…

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  • THIS IS AN EPIC, ONCE IN A LIFE TIME CHANCE! DON’T MISS IT!

    THIS IS AN EPIC, ONCE IN A LIFE TIME CHANCE! DON’T MISS IT!

    …..looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame. While Jesus carried His cross, THIS MOMENT was on His mind…. This moment in time when His bride gathers together in unity! Astounding!

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  • Slay The Marriage Killers – The In-Laws

    Slay The Marriage Killers – The In-Laws

    Marriage Killers. How do we slay them?Today, I want to talk about …The in-laws. Every marriage brings with it an extended family. My experience with in-laws was a good one. They weren’t intrusive. At the time I married Mike, he had lived on his own for years. He had a health relationship with his parents,…

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  • The Wicked Marriage Killer

    The Wicked Marriage Killer

    What is the Wicked Marriage Killer?Many years ago, my mother-in-law looked at my father-in-law and quoted me to him, “Just deal with it, Caitie.” I bet my mouth hung open. It became obvious that Carole, was teasing and poking back at her dear husband with words I’d said to my then, hmmmm I guess ten-year-old…

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  • Slay….. The Marriage Killers…. FINANCES

    Slay….. The Marriage Killers…. FINANCES

    So, let’s talk about Marriage Killers.

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  • The Finale!

    The Finale!

    Day Five – The Finale Pray: Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen. -Ephesians 3:20-21 Hallelujah and…

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  • It’s DECLARATION DAY!!  Hallelujah!!

    It’s DECLARATION DAY!! Hallelujah!!

    Thursday, January 10, 2019 There is grace. If you didn’t quite make it, there is no condemnation for those in Christ Jesus. So, start again and finish strong. And for the many who have continued steadfast, press in because this is a breakthrough day for everyone! Pray: I pray that out of his glorious riches…

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  • Day Three Fasting & Prayer Prompt

    Day Three Fasting & Prayer Prompt

    Wednesday, January 9, 2019 Mid-week, and this is when fasting becomes difficult. What I want to tell you is that when you reach Friday and you remained in the fast, you will feel such a surge of accomplishment and pride in your perseverance. And the flip-side, you will be disappointed you didn’t make yourself finish…

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  • Day Two Prayer & Fasting Prompt

    Day Two Prayer & Fasting Prompt

    Tuesday, January 8, 2019 SUMites, did you wake with a hunger in your tummy? Let that hunger remind you to hunger and thirst after His righteousness. FOR THEY SHALL BE FILLED! Today’s prayer prompt: My child, listen to what I say,     and treasure my commands. Tune your ears to wisdom,     and concentrate on…

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  • Fasting Day One – Scripture Prayer Prompt

    Fasting Day One – Scripture Prayer Prompt

    Prayer time challenge for this week. 1.      Don’t touch or look at your cell phone in the morning prior to your prayer time. I believe this is directly from the Lord. Your early morning prayer is vital during this fast. Reading your phone before prayer will completely suck you into the cares of the world.…

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  • Powerful Fasting Tips

    Powerful Fasting Tips

    Below are a few fasting tips I’ve scribbled down. Please share your tips and experiences in the comments. We need all the help and great ideas we can get. Hugs, Lynn *For newbies: Begin with a sunrise to sunset fast. *If fasting doesn’t mean anything to you, it won’t mean anything to God. *Avoid television…

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