Spiritual Warfare

  • A Story and a Surprise!

    A Story and a Surprise!

    I have a story to share with you. And a surprise. The story is about Lexie and Hugh Baltimore. Lexie is a believer who God uses in a very unique way to reach the lost. Her husband Hugh is an atheist. In the aftermath of a terrible loss, she’s trying to live out her faith…

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  • We Are Stronger Together

    We Are Stronger Together

    If you found your way here from the Focus on the Family broadcast, the first thing you heard yesterday was a quote from us. “Isolation steals our joy.” That’s why the first chapter of our book is titled, “Know That You’re Not Alone!” Our marriages are under attack by an enemy who wants to keep…

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  • We Need YOU!

    We Need YOU!

    My dear friends, Lynn and I just had one of our lively phone conversations-this one in preparation for our Focus on the Family broadcast scheduled for March 26th and 27th. There will also be a Twitter "party" on Friday-stay tuned for details on that. But we need your help. God is throwing open doors to…

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  • Defeat vs. Courage

    Defeat vs. Courage

    Living out of God’s courage, what holds us back? And how do we escape the two traps of the devil. On Valentine’s Day we will give away a DVD of the movie Courageous, several books and also we will give away two framed, The Resolution for men and 2 framed, The Resolution for Women. To…

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  • Effective Spiritual Warfare in an Unequally Yoked Home

    Effective Spiritual Warfare in an Unequally Yoked Home

    So, ummm, yep, nothing like an eight hour car ride to challenge a marriage. Yep, we traveled last week. In the car. With two teenagers, in heavy, holiday traffic in a car that barely seats four. First to visit four colleges in three days then on to northern California with my husband’s family. Finally, a…

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  • Who Are You Fighting With? Out-Love Your Spouse

    Who Are You Fighting With? Out-Love Your Spouse

    I have been writing about walking the Christian walk in a spiritually mismatched marriage now for a long time. One thing I have discovered is that when we take on a challenge here at SUM it is met with enthusiasm and hope by many of you.  …..at the beginning.  Here we are in week three.…

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  • Weekend Devo- A Facebook Seduction

    Weekend Devo- A Facebook Seduction

    We've talked here before about extramarital affairs starting on Facebook. One of our readers, John Padilla, ran into such a person try to initiate a relationship with him despite his status as married. John has so graciously agreed to share how he handled this experience and protected his marriage. Here's his account of what happened…

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  • Prayer Is Where Our Power Lives

    Prayer Is Where Our Power Lives

    "We must begin to believe that God, in the mystery of prayer, has entrusted us with a force that can move the Heavenly world, and can bring its power down to earth." Andrew Murray Today I'm sharing a post from a series I wrote about prayer that I originally shared back in 2008. It remains,…

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  • Our Soul and the Natural World ~ Article IV – Our Sense Hearing

    Our Soul and the Natural World ~ Article IV – Our Sense Hearing

    Spiritual Warfare – How We Fight Back A few months back, I began a series on the natural world and how nature, the world God created, can bring healing and joy to our soul. We started with light. If you missed that post, you can read it here. Then we looked at darkness and how…

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  • Enlisting Our Kids

    Enlisting Our Kids

    Let’s talk about older kids.   I’ve been sharing with you about the battle I sense coming with my husband. A new aspect has developed that I’d like to talk about here because I think it’s an area we haven’t really touched upon. And some of you out there reading this may have some inspiring…

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  • Chronicles of the Donovan Clan – A Setback or a Step Forward?????

    Chronicles of the Donovan Clan –
    A Setback or a Step Forward?????

    Yesterday I had a breakthrough. And it happened in church. During the summer months, translate – not football season- my husband will attend church with me on occasion. Yesterday my man and daughter went to church with me. Woo Hoo. But, why is it I’m still not happy? Sheesh. I mean really. More than anything,…

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  • The Battle That’s Coming

    The Battle That’s Coming

    “And now, compelled by the Spirit, I am going to Jerusalem, not knowing what will happen to me there. I only know that in every city the Holy Spirit warns me that prison and hardships are facing me. However, I consider my life worth nothing to me, if only I may finish the race and…

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  • Our Soul and the Natural World ~ Article III

    Our Soul and the Natural World ~ Article III

    Article III: Our Soul and the Natural World A few weeks back, I began a series on the natural world and how nature, the world God created, can bring healing and joy to our soul. We started with light. If you missed that post, you can read it here. Then we looked at darkness and…

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  • The Heart of the Matter

    The Heart of the Matter

    Over the last two weeks I’ve shared the importance of having a quiet time. My fear is that we haven’t covered the heart of this discipline and see it more as a duty, so I want to make that clear today. Not having a quiet time each day isn’t a sin. You haven’t broken a…

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  • Light Vs. Darkness: Living in the Natural World

    Light Vs. Darkness: Living in the Natural World

    Article II: Our Soul and the Natural World A few weeks back, I began a series on the natural world and how we can let nature, the world God created, bring healing, and joy to our soul. We started with light. If you missed that post, you can read it here. Today I want to post…

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  • Netflix – Light – Spiritual Warfare

    Netflix – Light – Spiritual Warfare

    A few days ago, I finally surrendered. We signed up for Netflix. It’s not like we don’t already have over 100 channels to choose from. But if you’re like me. I am very choosy about what I pour into my soul through television. So most of what’s available to watch….. I don’t. Okay but back…

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  • Let’s Not Fool Ourselves

    Let’s Not Fool Ourselves

      Yesterday, Lynn wrote a great post about Missionary Dating at the Internet Cafe. She and I have talked about this frequently because we want to be clear that walking willingly into a mismatched marriage is not God's will for our lives. So I'd like to add to this topic from the sense of the…

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  • Our Greatest Weapon-Prayer

    Our Greatest Weapon-Prayer

    At church Sunday, a friend of mine stood up with her husband and shared their testimony of how God saved their marriage ten years ago. I’ve only been at this church for about nine years so I had no idea this was the case. This couple has been an inspiration to me, especially my friend.…

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  • Thankful Thursday – A Glimpse of the Supernatural

    Thankful Thursday – A Glimpse of the Supernatural

    Let us give thanks. It is Thankful Thursday. This month, September, we will share our thanks with Iris of Grace Alone. Next month, October, I can't believe I'm talking October, we will be back here at Spiritually Unequal Marriage and then in November we will all meet up with Laurie of Women Taking A Stand.  So, I have…

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  • Weekend Devo – This, that, and a Video!

    Weekend Devo – This, that, and a Video!

    Video of yesterday's The Intentional Marriage CWA TV Show: http://cwatv.com/shows/the-intentional-marriage/

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  • Blinded by Darkness

    Blinded by Darkness

    We’ve covered some ground in the last few weeks about spiritual warfare in our marriages. Sadly, it’s a topic treated as taboo at times right within the church, but our enemy has been effective there as well. Too effective. If he can convince us he’s not a real threat or even better, that he doesn’t…

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