Sacrificial Love

  • Battlefield of the Mind: Pleading the Blood of Jesus

    Battlefield of the Mind: Pleading the Blood of Jesus

    The last three weeks we have talked about the battlefield of the mind and the transformation that the Bible speaks of in Romans 12:2, first with Feasting on God’s Word, then part two, Claiming and Praying God’s Promises and last week, Giving the Holy Spirit Authority. This week I want to talk about pleading the…

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  • Don’t Know What to Pray?

    Don’t Know What to Pray?

    Over the years I've learned that our mismatched situations come in all shapes and sizes. When I'm asked what mismatched means I explain that it can be as clear as one spouse believes in God and the other doesn't, as gray as differing faiths or degrees of faith (i.e. a believer married to a Muslim…

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  • Weekend Worship – The Throne of Grace

    Weekend Worship – The Throne of Grace

    Therefore, since we have a great high priest who has ascended into heaven, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold firmly to the faith we profess. For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just…

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  • Hope For You, Mom!

    Hope For You, Mom!

    Today I want to share a story with you that deeply touched me and Dineen. Below is a note I received from a young woman who is married and yet to have children. Her name is Stone. Dineen and I have come to know her and her story over the last several months as Stone…

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  • I Would Sign Up Again – Unequally Yoked

    I Would Sign Up Again – Unequally Yoked

    Hello SUMites,  Today I have a question for you. How many times have you set down in church and looked around the sanctuary at the couples seated together, husband and wife, and felt defeated, disappointed, and pain?  I know this place of pain existed in my life for many years. And I really didn’t understand…

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  • Weekend Worship – Living in the Presence

    Weekend Worship – Living in the Presence

    My friends, I hope you've had a week full of God's presence and revelations. I am feeling pulled of late to spend more time in God's Word and in His presence. A friend mentioned the same feeling this week too, which I find so very interesting. Yet I also find "life" so full of distractions…

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  • God’s Not Done with Us

    God’s Not Done with Us

    On my trip home from Indianapolis, I sat next to an older couple on the plane. I could tell they'd been together for years in the way they worked together to figure out her pills. I offered my set of eyes, glad to help them choose the right one. As we settle into our flight,…

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  • Returning To Our Roots

    Returning To Our Roots

    Hello my Friends,  Greetings this Friday! Dineen and I are both on the road, traveling to different events. But before we jumped on the plane, earlier this week we had a great talk about where we want to go with our writing here and at Mismatched & Thriving in the coming months.  After a lot…

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  • Weekend Worship – It Starts With a Willing Heart

    Weekend Worship – It Starts With a Willing Heart

    So when they had finished breakfast, Jesus said to Simon Peter, “Simon, son of John, do you love Me more than these?” He said to Him, “Yes, Lord; You know that I love You.” He said to him, “Tend My lambs.” He said to him again a second time, “Simon, son of John, do you…

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  • Chronicles Of A Humbled Donovan

    Chronicles Of A Humbled Donovan

    Okay….. So, ahem… You know what ALWAYS happens when I share teaching with you. I live it out… Well, this series on taking a step into the Jordan is no exception. So today I’m going to share with you an experience that has opened up a giant hole in my heart that only our merciful…

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  • Freedom

    Freedom

    All that Christ did, He did so that we would be slaves no more to the law-and more than that, to our own sinful nature. Freedom guys. FREEDOM. Christ redeemed us so that we could enjoy freedom in this life and the next. Oh Lord, thank you for Your Son. Thank you that our redeemer…

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  • The Greatest Sacrifice

    The Greatest Sacrifice

    The word that came to mind for this post was "lent"… So, you guessed it. I started searching and reading and trying to flesh this thing out-and of all that I read and pondered, the one thing that stands out the most is that Lent is time of great sacrifice. Gang, let me tell you,…

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  • Special Guest Today! Please Welcome Suzie Eller!

    Special Guest Today! Please Welcome Suzie Eller!

    My precious friends, today I want to introduce you to Susanne (Suzie) Eller. She's been a great support to the SUM ministry and now we get to share her with you! Suzie's message of forgiveness in her book, The Unburdened Heart is desperately needed today and by so many. I hope you find answers and…

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  • Weekend Worship – A Testimony

    Weekend Worship – A Testimony

    My precious friends, I can't believe Christmas is so close! As the day draws closer, I'm trying to keep my heart and mind wrapped around the miracle that God brought so long ago and keep my eyes open for the ones He's doing right now.  I want to share one with you. My rep at…

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  • Who’s Your Daddy?

    Who’s Your Daddy?

    Okay, I’m totally ripping off Lynn and some tacky song thing, right? But it’s what popped into my head and those are usually my best lines. (wink) With that said, I’m going to share a few tidbits of my past that, well, I really didn’t plan or want to but God’s giving me the nudge…

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  • Weekend Worship – Let Your Love Loose!

    Weekend Worship – Let Your Love Loose!

    Like Lynn said in yesterday's post, love has the power to conquer all. As I read that a fuller impact of what it means really hit home. This is something I've known since a child. Not sure how other than God just wired me that way, but I never fully understood what kind of love…

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  • How Much Does Jesus Love You?

    How Much Does Jesus Love You?

    For the last several months I’ve heard a constant theme about love from Christians all over the world. God is speaking very loudly to His children right now and the message is about His love and His call to love people. The message is everywhere and, in my opinion, is unmistakably a sign of His…

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  • Weekend Devo – Sifted Like Wheat

    Weekend Devo – Sifted Like Wheat

    Yesterday we were blessed by a POWERFUL reader letter. In it she mentions Luke 22:31-32: “Simon, Simon, Satan has asked to sift all of you as wheat. But I have prayed for you, Simon, that your faith may not fail. And when you have turned back, strengthen your brothers.” If you’ve read Peter’s story you…

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  • An Open Letter from Courtney

    An Open Letter from Courtney

    An Open Letter from Courtney: Hi Lynn and Dineen,  I never thought I would say this, but I'm going to miss this season being in a spiritually unequal marriage in some ways.  It just dawned on me this morning during a very precious and tear-filled quiet time with Jesus. As the Lord has been impressing…

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  • Share Jesus and Be Real

    Share Jesus and Be Real

    We’ve had some great discussions with Lynn’s posts about atheist blogs and the unequally yoked. As I’ve shared with you all here, my husband is an atheist and his choice not to believe in God has been a huge catalyst for me to be clear on what God’s Word says and to claim many of…

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  • That Old Familiar Ache

    That Old Familiar Ache

    It snuck up on me again, that old familiar ache. The one I used to walk around with constantly early on in my mismatched marriage. I thought I’d made peace with it, made the choice to trust God with my husband’s salvation and the future of our marriage. I’d learned to bring that ache, that…

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