Marriage

  • Line by Line: Remarriage

    Line by Line: Remarriage

    Part III  Line by line. Precept upon Precept.  On Monday we looked line by line at 1 Corinthians 7:10-11. We managed to get through three lines. Sheesh. This takes longer that I thought. But I hope the discussion blew your mind and caused you to pray and seek God’s explanation of these verses.  I will…

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  • Line by Line: The Bible and Divorce

    Line by Line: The Bible and Divorce

    Hi Everyone,  Well since Thursday I have read and re-read this particular passage we are studying, 1 Corinthians 7. I know I said we would look specifically at the verses 12-15 however, I’m feeling convinced that we must actually consider the two verses prior. So today, I’m going to tackle something I HATE to address.…

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  • Line by Line – Precept Upon Precept – Unequally Yoked

    Line by Line – Precept Upon Precept – Unequally Yoked

    Line by line. Precept upon precept….  Most of the time I write articles and commentary on topical subjects related to faith, marriage and parenting. But recently my love for the Word of God has grown exponentially. I am falling more in love with His Holy Word. I didn’t know that was still possible but that…

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  • Guest With Arlene Pelicane

    Guest With Arlene Pelicane

    I'm a guest with Arlene Pelicane today on her podcast.  Arlene: Are you and your husband on the same page spiritually?  My dear friend, author Lynn Donovan shares her story of what it’s like to be married to an unbeliever.  You are going to love her spunk and honesty. How has she found love, peace, and happiness…

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  • Donovan Clan Update

    Donovan Clan Update

    Hello My SUMite Family,  It was my intentions to share a little about the book, The Five Love Languages. However, I’m just not feelin’ it. So I think it’s time to let you know what has been going on in the Donovan Clan House.  As most of you know my son and daughter-in-law moved in…

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  • New Series For July

    New Series For July

    Hi SUMite Family.  Lynn Donovan here. Question: Can you believe half of 2014 is over??? We are jumping into the last half of the year and I still have so much I want to accomplish and even more I’m waiting for many, many prayers to be answered. So as we jump into July Dineen and…

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  • The Truest Words From The Heart of Every Believer In A Spiritual Mismatched Marriage

    The Truest Words From The Heart of Every Believer In A Spiritual Mismatched Marriage

    Today I'm sharing a letter I received last week. I haven known Tamara for a very long time. She is likely one of our very earliest readers. She has walked in her uneuqlly yoked marriage for many years. In her short email I think she captured the truest parts of our heart. I'm not sure…

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  • Reader Question: Struggling with Shame and Regret

    Reader Question: Struggling with Shame and Regret

    Hi Lynn and Dineen, I am writing this email because I feel an incredibly heavy burden. Right now I am struggling with a great deal of shame and an amount of regret over my decision to marry an unbeliever last year. It is tough for me to really believe that through this mistake, God will…

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  • Reader Question: I Don’t Know What to Do

    Reader Question: I Don’t Know What to Do

    Hello Dineen and Lynn.  My husband and I have been married for 15 years. He told me in January 2013 that he was no longer a Christian. He became an aetheist at 51 years old. I was and still am devastated.  I married a Christian man and we based our marriage on the same religious…

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  • Reader Question: How Do I Respect Him

    Reader Question: How Do I Respect Him

    Today I'm tackling another reader question: Lynn, Hi there, thanks so much for getting back to me.  I am worried because I feel that my marriage is more than just spiritually mismatched–it's all around mismatched.  Somehow, during a period of rebellion apparently, I got myself into a marriage with a man whose core values I…

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  • A Reader Question: Could I Be Unequally Yoked?

    A Reader Question: Could I Be Unequally Yoked?

    Let’s tackle a reader question today. Often I receive an email such as below. Today, I’m sharing this reader’s question and my reply. I hope for all of those in our SUM House who are walking this particular journey in marriage find encouragement. Hugs, Lynn  Hello, Lynn: I've been wondering about something: is it assumed…

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  • Standing on God’s Promises

    Standing on God’s Promises

    My friends as I sit here and write this post, my family and I are facing some pretty tall mountains. If you read the blog Saturday, you know I wound up in the ER Friday morning due to a bad reaction to a medication (thank you so much for your prayers and encouragement!). I’m grateful…

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  • An Unlikely Family Shows Up At The Movies

    An Unlikely Family Shows Up At The Movies

    Hello SUMite Family:  It’s a sunny Sunday afternoon here at the Donovan Clan House as I write this post. I’ve just returned home from the movie theater where I watched the movie, Son of God.  I’m in my office alone right now, a rare accomplishment these days as my son, daughter-in-law and granddaughter who is…

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  • A Ten Year Journey to Becoming Equally Yoked

    A Ten Year Journey to Becoming Equally Yoked

    My friend, Carol, and her husband are both Christian. This spiritual unity enhances their marriage union. But it wasn’t always that way. They agreed to share their story as an encouragement to those of us who are, or have been, in unequally yoked relationships.  Wherever you are on your own journey, won’t you join me…

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  • It’s All About A Wedding!

    It’s All About A Wedding!

    Hello SUMites,  Lynn here. I’m posting on Wednesday today as I’m traveling the remainder of the week. Teresa will be sharing a fascinating interview on Friday. Dineen will be back in March. Woo Hoo!! Thank you Teresa T. for filling in this month. I love you my friend. And we appreciate your heart and time.…

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  • I Would Sign Up Again – Unequally Yoked

    I Would Sign Up Again – Unequally Yoked

    Hello SUMites,  Today I have a question for you. How many times have you set down in church and looked around the sanctuary at the couples seated together, husband and wife, and felt defeated, disappointed, and pain?  I know this place of pain existed in my life for many years. And I really didn’t understand…

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  • Marriage Challenge No. 1

    Marriage Challenge No. 1

    So, I’ve been inspired by a friend of mine Courtney Joseph who has a new book coming out, Women Living Well. I will share more about that later. It’s a really great book. I was privileged to read it before its release and she has a couple of chapters that are Marriage Challenges.  One of…

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  • Returning To Our Roots

    Returning To Our Roots

    Hello my Friends,  Greetings this Friday! Dineen and I are both on the road, traveling to different events. But before we jumped on the plane, earlier this week we had a great talk about where we want to go with our writing here and at Mismatched & Thriving in the coming months.  After a lot…

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  • Weekend Worship – We are Overcomers!

    Weekend Worship – We are Overcomers!

    My friends, I just love our weekend worship time together. Today I want to share a couple things with you. The first is something God whispered to me one morning during my quiet time as I read a devo that talked about planting seeds (It's popping up everywhere! Yes, punned inteded. LOL!): Eternity = The…

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  • He Holds Our Tears

    He Holds Our Tears

    My friends, Dineen here. Lynn let me hyjack the blog today because we agreed the messages I received from the Holy Spirit are so needed right now and time sensitive. Get ready to read and grab a tissue. God rocked my world and now He's about to rock yours. But Mary was standing outside the…

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  • Devastating Disappointment

    Devastating Disappointment

    How do we walk through devastating – life-changing disappointment? I’ve been wrestling with this very issue in my life over the past two weeks.  For the past year I’ve been certain that my spouse has slowly moved closer to embracing faith. I’m not even sure why I came to this conclusion over time. Perhaps I…

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