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The Battle with Fear
Read more: The Battle with FearFor I am the LORD, your God, who takes hold of your right hand ?and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you. – Isaiah 41:13 Fear can be an all out, guns blazing affair or a subtle thief that sneaks in and steals our joy. I realized this past weekend that fear…
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Marriage Monday – In-Laws
Read more: Marriage Monday – In-Laws…nearly 60 percent of all marriages suffer from tension with mothers-in-law, normally between the daughter-in-law and her husband's mother. It's Marriage Monday. Our topic: In-Laws I wonder how many of you felt your blood pressure rise at the mere mention of this topic? Well, considering the statistic above, I can bet a number of you…
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Weekend Devo – God is GOOD!
Read more: Weekend Devo – God is GOOD!And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. – Romans 8:28 Romans 8:28 is my life verse. No other piece of Scripture has spoken as deeply into my heart as this one. Amazingly, I understood the truth of…
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Talking Without Words
Read more: Talking Without WordsPart of a presentation I’m giving on Wednesday has a section about romance and romancing your guy. I love this part because I get to give a group of women some facts and tangible ideas of how to romance their husbands. Some of this lands on communication and its vital role in any relationship. And…
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Out-Love Your Spouse – The Final Chapter?
Read more: Out-Love Your Spouse – The Final Chapter?We are ending the last week of our “Out-Love” our spouse challenge. This is only the starting place. Our challenge is the beginning of a new way of life. An intentional effort to love our spouse with the love of Christ. I will never forget what Shelly shared with me months ago. It has forever…
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And the Walls Came A-Tumbling Down
Read more: And the Walls Came A-Tumbling DownLynn’s post yesterday talked about the walls we erect that keep our guys on the outside. I want to share with you how this translated into my life. I walked into my marriage with the expectations I’d leaned from the pages of romance novels and movies. I’d bought into the fairytale. Everything was fine in…
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Out-Love Your Spouse – The Result
Read more: Out-Love Your Spouse – The ResultWhy? Why make the effort to out-love my husband. Why must it always be me to make the first move? Why can’t he change for once? Why? Several months have passed since I first met Shelly Weaver. She has been used by God to inspire many of us here at Spiritually Unequal Marriage to live…
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Weekend Devo – Don’t Give Up!
Read more: Weekend Devo – Don’t Give Up!Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us. – Hebrews 12:1 It's been an overwhelming week and one night I was pretty grumpy with my…
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Who Are You Fighting With? Out-Love Your Spouse
Read more: Who Are You Fighting With? Out-Love Your SpouseI have been writing about walking the Christian walk in a spiritually mismatched marriage now for a long time. One thing I have discovered is that when we take on a challenge here at SUM it is met with enthusiasm and hope by many of you. …..at the beginning. Here we are in week three.…
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Thankful Thursday –
Read more: Thankful Thursday –Thankful Thursday is back here at Spiritually Unequal Marriage for the month of October. Woo Hoo! Achoo! Sniffle, sniffle. Good day every one and pass the Kleenex. Where’s the Nyquil? Do you feed a cold and starve a fever or feed and fever and starve a cold? Sheesh! Yep, cold number four this year. Thankfully,…
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Spouse-Based or God-Based?
Read more: Spouse-Based or God-Based?What is the difference between a spouse-based marriage and a God-based marriage? This is the question my Sunday school leader asked our group this past weekend. We’re currently doing Gary Thomas’ video series, Sacred Marriage, which goes with his book by the same title. It’s a great course, and I have loved hearing different perspectives…
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Out-Love Your Spouse – Your Ideas
Read more: Out-Love Your Spouse – Your IdeasHi My Friends, Well, I think this post is going to be a little off track and unorganized. For some reason I have another cold and the headache is persistent today, so I will be brief. This Friday I'm going to share with you what happens in an ordinary marriage when you put the principals…
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Weekend Devo – God’s Timing
Read more: Weekend Devo – God’s TimingBe still before the LORD and wait patiently for him. – Psalm 37:7 The biggest challenge we often have is patience, wouldn't you say? I see this all the time in others and in myself. We want things to change now, to get better, get easier, go smoother. But what if we knew those very…
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Out-Love Your Spouse – It’s time for the Next Challenge
Read more: Out-Love Your Spouse – It’s time for the Next ChallengeI have to tell you that this first part of this challenge, God really put me to task. I discovered it is monumentally difficult, at least for me, to change speech patterns that are decades old. What is hilarious to me is that concurrent to working through this challenge, I am also facilitating a Bible…
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Thankful Thursday – Honor God
Read more: Thankful Thursday – Honor GodThankful Thursday is back here at Spiritually Unequal Marriage for the month of October. Woo Hoo! —– Yesterday I was privileged to sit down and share lunch with Pam Farrel. Many of you may know Pam and her husband, Bill. They have been writing and speaking about Godly marriages for years and years. One of…
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The Silent Talker
Read more: The Silent TalkerSo far, we’ve been talking about our words-how we use them and even when. I have to share with you that early on in my marriage, I didn’t always use my words wisely when I did speak up, but my biggest issue was not speaking up at all. Instead I held things in, choosing my…
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Out-Love Your Spouse –
A Challenge, A Change, A CandleRead more: Out-Love Your Spouse –A Challenge: Last Monday was our first challenge and we met Shelly Weaver who has been living with purpose to out-love her husband. She shared her desire to serve the Kingdom, feed the homeless and work in ministry but God, through her pastor, put her feet to the fire so to speak. She needed to FIRST…
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Weekend Devo – Are you listening, dear?
Read more: Weekend Devo – Are you listening, dear?This 1881 engraving appeared in Charles Dickens "Bleak House" and is actually depicting a marriage proposal. What cracks me up is the woman is oblivious to what he's doing. Even the bird on the poor guy's shoulder is more aware of what's going on than she is. Do you do that? Sometimes I do. I'm…
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Out-Love your Spouse – Sowing and Reaping
Read more: Out-Love your Spouse – Sowing and ReapingWell how was the first week? I have to tell you that I have been on this journey for a few months already and I find it extraordinarily difficult. So don’t become discouraged. There are lessons to be learned and God surely had to teach me a few things this week. Sometimes He must show…
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Thankful Thursday – It’s all about Perspective
Read more: Thankful Thursday – It’s all about PerspectiveThankful Thursday is back here at Spiritually Unequal Marriage for the month of October. Woo Hoo! We have a busy month around here and for all of you joining us today, welcome to our marriage challenge. Out-Love Your Husband/Wife If you missed the video posted Monday, I promise it’s worth your time. Just read the…
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Loving God Helps Me Love My Husband
Read more: Loving God Helps Me Love My HusbandI will tell you, in all honesty, that I cannot love my husband in my own strength. It’s not possible. I tried to for a many years and would do fine for a while, but inevitably I would run out of steam. Resentment would seep back in and these feelings and thoughts that had to…
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The Proposal
Read more: The ProposalLast week I attended a writer’s conference in St. Louis. On one of the evenings a bunch of us went on a cruise down the Mississippi. We had a spectacular view of the skyline and Arch as dusk fell. And an even more spectacular view as we returned to our hotel. We trekked up the…
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Kids in the Mix – Marriage Monday
Read more: Kids in the Mix – Marriage MondayIt’s Marriage Monday and I am able to hop in and share this week. As most of us “Add Kids to the Mix,” Marriage Monday is expanding to cover the topic, Kids. I recently finished writing a talk for MOPS, about raising kids: Raising Kid’s to Integrity and Faith. It was a wonderful process to…
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Weekend Devo- A Facebook Seduction
Read more: Weekend Devo- A Facebook SeductionWe've talked here before about extramarital affairs starting on Facebook. One of our readers, John Padilla, ran into such a person try to initiate a relationship with him despite his status as married. John has so graciously agreed to share how he handled this experience and protected his marriage. Here's his account of what happened…