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I’m Not Strong Enough
Read more: I’m Not Strong Enough…..To be the spiritual leader of our home.…..To be a consistent Godly example to my spouse – to my children. …..To bare the physical demands of a career – raising the children – cleaning my home – cooking and the sum total of all the expectations placed on me. I ‘m at the end of…
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Prayer Is Where Our Power Lives
Read more: Prayer Is Where Our Power Lives"We must begin to believe that God, in the mystery of prayer, has entrusted us with a force that can move the Heavenly world, and can bring its power down to earth." Andrew Murray Today I'm sharing a post from a series I wrote about prayer that I originally shared back in 2008. It remains,…
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Raising Kids and Back to School
Read more: Raising Kids and Back to SchoolSchool started today (Wedsnesday) at the Donovan Clan home. As I write this, I just watched my daughter get into the car and drive off for her first day as a junior. I waved. She waved in return. Then she was off. I stood in the driveway. I didn’t cry or worry about her day.…
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Answered Prayers Can Be Painful
Read more: Answered Prayers Can Be PainfulI’m grieving. But in a good way. I know that sounds a bit crazy so I’ll explain. Two prayers that I’ve been praying for my family seem to be coming to fruition, but it’s not at all what I was expecting. I will share with you the one about my daughter because so many of…
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Donovan Clan Is Dating
Read more: Donovan Clan Is DatingSome interesting things are happening in the Donovan Clan house. And today I want to share with you some of my thoughts about all of it. I also will acknowledge that some of you will disagree with me and some of you I might offend. However, I also know there a many of us moms…
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Weekend Devo – Love Me
Read more: Weekend Devo – Love MeI took this picture in a store the other day. The message is so indicative of state of mind, heart and soul that is prevalent today. My daughter and I talked about it and found two angles to look at it. One, the obvious is the very selfish and self-centered message relayed here. The wearer…
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A Divine Parallel by Guest Writer: Janet
Read more: A Divine Parallel by Guest Writer: JanetHeavenly Father, I’m emotionally exhausted and taxed beyond measure. Don’t you see my tears? Do they mean anything to You? I too have felt great passion, loss and sadness causing me to weep. {Hebrews 5:7, Luke 19:41, John 11:35, Mark 15:37} God how much longer? I mean really, can’t my spouse see I’m not trying…
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What I Do See
Read more: What I Do SeeSometimes we get so caught up in looking for how God is working in our unbelieving spouses that we miss seeing the places that they are struggling. I’m becoming more and more aware of this in my husband’s life. He’s a pretty even keeled guy with a very strong moral base. I’ve found that most…
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Stuck on the Edge
Read more: Stuck on the EdgePerhaps you are curious. After last Monday’s post about my husband and our church experience (read it here), I will let you know that over the weekend my husband’s family was visiting, thus he didn’t attend church. However, earlier in the week we had a discussion about church and our conversation that ensued that morning…
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Weekend Devo – REACH OUT!
Read more: Weekend Devo – REACH OUT!Earlier this month I shared how God had answers our prayers for one of our kitties, who had gone missing. (Read “The Smallest of Prayers” here) I’m sad to say that Suzy passed away yesterday. It was clear yesterday morning when we woke up that the old girl wouldn’t live more than a day. At…
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Our Soul and the Natural World ~ Article IV – Our Sense Hearing
Read more: Our Soul and the Natural World ~ Article IV – Our Sense HearingSpiritual Warfare – How We Fight Back A few months back, I began a series on the natural world and how nature, the world God created, can bring healing and joy to our soul. We started with light. If you missed that post, you can read it here. Then we looked at darkness and how…
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Enlisting Our Kids
Read more: Enlisting Our KidsLet’s talk about older kids. I’ve been sharing with you about the battle I sense coming with my husband. A new aspect has developed that I’d like to talk about here because I think it’s an area we haven’t really touched upon. And some of you out there reading this may have some inspiring…
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Chronicles of the Donovan Clan –
A Setback or a Step Forward?????Read more: Chronicles of the Donovan Clan –Yesterday I had a breakthrough. And it happened in church. During the summer months, translate – not football season- my husband will attend church with me on occasion. Yesterday my man and daughter went to church with me. Woo Hoo. But, why is it I’m still not happy? Sheesh. I mean really. More than anything,…
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Weekend Devo – Praying Scripture
Read more: Weekend Devo – Praying ScriptureFor God is working in you, giving you the desire and the power to do what pleases him. ~ Philippians 2:13, NLT Sometimes God calls upon us to do some pretty difficult stuff, especially in our mismatched marriages. More importantly, we face a daily battle within ourselves to do what pleases God and what pleases…
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The Battle That’s Coming
Read more: The Battle That’s Coming“And now, compelled by the Spirit, I am going to Jerusalem, not knowing what will happen to me there. I only know that in every city the Holy Spirit warns me that prison and hardships are facing me. However, I consider my life worth nothing to me, if only I may finish the race and…
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Weekend Devo – The Smallest of Prayers
Read more: Weekend Devo – The Smallest of PrayersMy family and I took nearly a month to drive from San Jose, California to Sarasota, Florida to spend time with our families and then drive home again. A bit crazy, I know, but we love road trips. We have games we play, like finding all the license tags, (did you know they make a…
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A Perspective for those dating a nonbelievier by Martha McMillan
Read more: A Perspective for those dating a nonbelievier by Martha McMillanI am a 52 year old divorced mother of two mostly grown girls (age 21 and 18). I can testify to being unequally yoked. I was married for 21 years. It was hard on many occasions and lonely as well. But I loved being married, even when it wasn’t good. I loved my husband and…
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Thankful Thursday – Dineen is in the House!
Read more: Thankful Thursday – Dineen is in the House!Welcome to Thankful Thursday. Hosted here at Spiritually Unequal Marriage each Thursday in July. August- Laurie and September- Iris. Hi Friends! Lynn's on vacation and asked me to do Thankful Thursday this week. Woohoo! I get to play. 🙂 So this week, let's talk about a turning point in your life that you are so…
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Moments of Truth
Read more: Moments of TruthSometimes I forget how far apart my husband and I are on the issue of faith. We are pretty much on the same page for most things except this one area. Every so often a subject will come up (usually political) and I'm reminded that we sit on very opposite sides. Those are the moments…
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Disillusioned in My Marriage – Unequally Yoked
Read more: Disillusioned in My Marriage – Unequally YokedA few weeks ago I watched my friend Kelly walking through the foyer of our church. In tow, her three children. They passed by me smiling and saying, “Hello” to passersby who were heading out to eat or going home after church. But, as I looked into her face, I saw something no one else…
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Weekend Devo – God Makes Us Competent
Read more: Weekend Devo – God Makes Us CompetentAnd you show that you are a letter from Christ delivered by us, written not with ink but with the Spirit of the living God, not on tablets of stone but on tablets of human hearts. Such is the confidence that we have through Christ toward God. Not that we are sufficient in ourselves to…
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Choosing to Love
Read more: Choosing to Love(Last Fall I wrote this post about making the choice to love our spouse. With a little revision, I'm sharing this again since it's a topic that can be a great challenge yet is so crucial to any marriage.) How do we love our spouses unconditionally? How do we keep going? How do we keep…
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Chronicles of the Donovan Clan
Read more: Chronicles of the Donovan ClanI’m thinking it’s time for a Chronicles update. This is one of the most meaningful posts about the Chronicles I have written to-date. Up until now, I hesitated to share with you what happened on May 6th. But today the Lord said to me, “It’s time.” For those of you who are new to our…
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Weekend Devo – Gideon a Mighty Warrior?
Read more: Weekend Devo – Gideon a Mighty Warrior?When the angel of the LORD appeared to Gideon, he said, “The LORD is with you, mighty warrior.” – Judges 6:12 The story of Gideon is a tale of man who sees himself and his tribe as being weak and most incapable of defeating their enemy. He’s baffled that God would even consider him suitable…