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He Came Upon a Midnight Clear-For YOU!
Read more: He Came Upon a Midnight Clear-For YOU!My Bible study group completed our study yesterday. We’d walked the past 11 weeks through the story of David with Beth Moore. On this last day she shared a powerful visual of a staff that had once been a vine. The bottom was straight but about half way up, the thick stalk rose upward in…
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Creating Christmas Memories with your Kids on the Cheap
Read more: Creating Christmas Memories with your Kids on the CheapHoliday Traditions Some of you know that I can be a bit wacky. With that said, my adventurous nature is in full gear during the Christmas season. And I AM, ahem, adventurous. And I share my escapades with my daughter. We have built memories that will last forever. One of our favorite things to do at Christmas…
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Don’t Get In a Twist
Read more: Don’t Get In a TwistA visit to my local nail salon is always fascinating. Now, please don’t think poorly of me. This is the one pampering I allow myself. I visit the local Vietnamese nail salon for a pink and white fill. Don’t do the toes, nor the anything else much but this one thing. But I am so…
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Turkey Soup
Read more: Turkey SoupWhen we lived in Memphis, I used to always make turkey soup from the Thanksgiving leftovers. I’d let it sit on the stove all day and cook down to yummy goodness. One of my favorite ingredients was to throw some of the left over stuffing into the soup for seasoning. Yum! A lot of years…
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Effective Spiritual Warfare in an Unequally Yoked Home
Read more: Effective Spiritual Warfare in an Unequally Yoked HomeSo, ummm, yep, nothing like an eight hour car ride to challenge a marriage. Yep, we traveled last week. In the car. With two teenagers, in heavy, holiday traffic in a car that barely seats four. First to visit four colleges in three days then on to northern California with my husband’s family. Finally, a…
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To Pray of Not To Pray. That is The Question for The Unequally Yoked
Read more: To Pray of Not To Pray. That is The Question for The Unequally YokedFootball rages in the family room, the aroma of a roasting Bidzilla satisfies the kitchen, kids play outside, red cheeked and with hands frozen. Ahhhh, Thanksgiving. This is my favorite traditional holiday of food, family and ……stress. Read more at the Internet Cafe Devotions, Marriage Counter.
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Weekend Devo – Who are you?
Read more: Weekend Devo – Who are you?"Why do you call me, 'Lord, Lord,' and do not do what I say? I will show you what he is like who comes to me and hears my words and puts them into practice. He is like a man building a house, who dug down deep and laid the foundation on rock. When a…
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It Is Truly Special – Thanksgiving
Read more: It Is Truly Special – ThanksgivingThe predawn light slips through the window as I sleepily rub my eyes and wait for the coffee to trickle into the pot. The smell rises to fill my head with a smile. I pour in cream and shuffle to the drawer, withdraw my familiar and tattered Bible and the spiral binder below it. All…
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A Change in Perspective
Read more: A Change in PerspectiveI sat in my favorite chair, devotional in hand and Bible open. Tears began streaming down my face. I sat before God, grieving over a hope that felt thin at best. The evening before, my husband and I were on our way out to grab a bite to eat. I thanked him again for the…
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You Thought You Weren’t One
Read more: You Thought You Weren’t OneThe most unexpected thing happened to me yesterday. Seated next to my daughter and her best friend, I opened my Bible to the passage and listened as the pastor began to read Luke 15. While he was reading this familiar passage, powerful emotion rose up from some place deep within me. He arrived at verse…
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Weekend Devo – The Journey from Atheism to Belief
Read more: Weekend Devo – The Journey from Atheism to BeliefThis is a beautiful testimony from one of our readers about her husband's journey from atheism to belief. Thank you for sharing your story with us, Jennifer! I accepted Christ in the 4th grade and grew up in a Baptist church. I have always had a strong relationship with Christ, but my walk blossomed exponentially…
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The Battle with Fear
Read more: The Battle with FearFor I am the LORD, your God, who takes hold of your right hand ?and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you. – Isaiah 41:13 Fear can be an all out, guns blazing affair or a subtle thief that sneaks in and steals our joy. I realized this past weekend that fear…
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Marriage Monday – In-Laws
Read more: Marriage Monday – In-Laws…nearly 60 percent of all marriages suffer from tension with mothers-in-law, normally between the daughter-in-law and her husband's mother. It's Marriage Monday. Our topic: In-Laws I wonder how many of you felt your blood pressure rise at the mere mention of this topic? Well, considering the statistic above, I can bet a number of you…
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Weekend Devo – God is GOOD!
Read more: Weekend Devo – God is GOOD!And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. – Romans 8:28 Romans 8:28 is my life verse. No other piece of Scripture has spoken as deeply into my heart as this one. Amazingly, I understood the truth of…
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Talking Without Words
Read more: Talking Without WordsPart of a presentation I’m giving on Wednesday has a section about romance and romancing your guy. I love this part because I get to give a group of women some facts and tangible ideas of how to romance their husbands. Some of this lands on communication and its vital role in any relationship. And…
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Out-Love Your Spouse – The Final Chapter?
Read more: Out-Love Your Spouse – The Final Chapter?We are ending the last week of our “Out-Love” our spouse challenge. This is only the starting place. Our challenge is the beginning of a new way of life. An intentional effort to love our spouse with the love of Christ. I will never forget what Shelly shared with me months ago. It has forever…
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And the Walls Came A-Tumbling Down
Read more: And the Walls Came A-Tumbling DownLynn’s post yesterday talked about the walls we erect that keep our guys on the outside. I want to share with you how this translated into my life. I walked into my marriage with the expectations I’d leaned from the pages of romance novels and movies. I’d bought into the fairytale. Everything was fine in…
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Out-Love Your Spouse – The Result
Read more: Out-Love Your Spouse – The ResultWhy? Why make the effort to out-love my husband. Why must it always be me to make the first move? Why can’t he change for once? Why? Several months have passed since I first met Shelly Weaver. She has been used by God to inspire many of us here at Spiritually Unequal Marriage to live…
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Weekend Devo – Don’t Give Up!
Read more: Weekend Devo – Don’t Give Up!Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us. – Hebrews 12:1 It's been an overwhelming week and one night I was pretty grumpy with my…
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Who Are You Fighting With? Out-Love Your Spouse
Read more: Who Are You Fighting With? Out-Love Your SpouseI have been writing about walking the Christian walk in a spiritually mismatched marriage now for a long time. One thing I have discovered is that when we take on a challenge here at SUM it is met with enthusiasm and hope by many of you. …..at the beginning. Here we are in week three.…
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Thankful Thursday –
Read more: Thankful Thursday –Thankful Thursday is back here at Spiritually Unequal Marriage for the month of October. Woo Hoo! Achoo! Sniffle, sniffle. Good day every one and pass the Kleenex. Where’s the Nyquil? Do you feed a cold and starve a fever or feed and fever and starve a cold? Sheesh! Yep, cold number four this year. Thankfully,…
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Spouse-Based or God-Based?
Read more: Spouse-Based or God-Based?What is the difference between a spouse-based marriage and a God-based marriage? This is the question my Sunday school leader asked our group this past weekend. We’re currently doing Gary Thomas’ video series, Sacred Marriage, which goes with his book by the same title. It’s a great course, and I have loved hearing different perspectives…
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Out-Love Your Spouse – Your Ideas
Read more: Out-Love Your Spouse – Your IdeasHi My Friends, Well, I think this post is going to be a little off track and unorganized. For some reason I have another cold and the headache is persistent today, so I will be brief. This Friday I'm going to share with you what happens in an ordinary marriage when you put the principals…
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Weekend Devo – God’s Timing
Read more: Weekend Devo – God’s TimingBe still before the LORD and wait patiently for him. – Psalm 37:7 The biggest challenge we often have is patience, wouldn't you say? I see this all the time in others and in myself. We want things to change now, to get better, get easier, go smoother. But what if we knew those very…
