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Make a deposit in your Love Bank

So what is a love bank? Willard F. Harley, Jr. describes it this way: Everyone Has a Love Bank Figuratively speaking, I believe each of us has a Love Bank.…

So what is a love bank? Willard F. Harley, Jr. describes it this way:

Everyone Has a Love Bank

Figuratively speaking, I believe each of us has a Love Bank. It contains many different accounts, one for each person we know. Each person either makes deposits or withdrawals whenever we interact with him or her. Pleasurable interactions cause deposits, and painful interactions cause withdrawals. –His Needs, Her Needs.

Therefore, the deposits and withdrawals in an individuals love bank fluctuated continuously. Many people remain in the black while others cause the love bank to become overdrawn or RED.

How does the love bank work in marriage? We are going to look at that next. I have a challenge for us. Today make a concious effort to deposit in the love banks of your spouse and kids. Let me know what happens. Be blessed, Lynn

Also, you can find me today over at Laced With Grace: Intensely Yellow.

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  1. Lundie Avatar
    Lundie

    This is a wonderful idea that I firmly believe in. Looking forward to the process!

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  2. eph2810 Avatar
    eph2810

    I love this term “making deposits” – I make plenty deposits with my Sweethearts bank, but my account looks pretty good too :)…I noticed a difference though with our son. I am making a conscious effort to deposit in his bank this year – it works very well. He is not so grumpy anymore *grin*

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